Weddings have changed dynamically over the decades – and that’s not a bad thing. Today we’re moving away from some traWeddings have evolved significantly over the decades, embracing inclusivity and personalization. Modern couples are redefining traditions, creating ceremonies that reflect their unique values and relationships.
As these new trends and customs arise, there’s also been a shift in some of the typical wedding duties. For example, traditional customs like bridal parties and having a best man or maid of honor standing at the altar often look much different today. Some couples are choosing to forgo the whole idea of a party of people standing with them at the altar, while others are creating an ‘I Do Crew’ unlike anything seen in weddings of past generations.
With the gender-neutral movement gaining momentum, many couples find it important to incorporate inclusivity into their wedding ceremonies. This ensures that anyone, regardless of gender identity, can participate fully and authentically.
It’s now common to see mixed-gender bridal parties, with roles like ‘friend of honor’ replacing traditional titles. After all, does it really make sense that only a girl can throw flower petals down the aisle before the bride walks out? Or that only a boy can carry the pillow with the ring attached? These outdated norms are being replaced with more inclusive practices.
If you’re considering a gender-neutral wedding party, here are some inclusive titles to consider:
- I Do Crew
- Adventure Crew
- Honor Attendant
- Bridal Posse
- Friends of Honor
- Honor Guard
- Best Person
- Person of Honor
Regardless of who is attending or serving as part of your special team on the day of your wedding, the roles and responsibilities remain the same: to support the couple in having a smooth, seamless, and memorable day. Tasks like holding the bouquet, assisting with the dress train, safeguarding the rings, and delivering heartfelt toasts are still integral, no matter who performs them.
Whether you’ve chosen to have both genders serve in your honor guard or you have gender-fluid individuals you want to honor on your big day, remember that your wedding is going to be beautiful—traditional or not—especially when there is love and honor for all present.